People talk more and more about success, how to succeed in a particular area, how to get financial freedom, how to have a perfect health and many others. Guess what? Every day there are tens and hundreds of books, ebooks, audio tapes, newspapers, magazines, practical advice on how to do all these things in a short time. You hear stuff like: I can teach you how to make 5,000 euros a month if you follow 7 easy steps, you can double your business results in just two weeks, you can cure the disease x in three months if you buy my product etc. It seems like there is a solution for every problem we face. I’m sure this is true but I noticed one thing: when people have a problem they try to do certain things,they are looking for tricks, shortcuts in order to get the results they want. If they want to be rich, many people try to do something fast, they are gambling or they are looking for a quick transaction to get rick overnight. Everybody who just tries to do something they fail, they give up and start to blame anything else but them, to find all sorts of excuses: the weight loss product x it’s crap, the business y is a bluff,they just wanted to take my money. After this it begins the disappointment,the shame of being a loser, the guilt and thoughts like this appear immediately: I’m no good for anything, I will fail again, I’m not the right environment to succeed etc..
It seems that all these people (including myself I have gone through this) have forgotten one simple thing:if you don’t have a proper mindset, you try in vain to do something,if you want to get rich and you think of the failure,you refuse to take responsibility and to become a person ready to succeed,it’s in vain, you won’t get rich
Everything is based on a simple scheme: YOU BECOME-YOU ACT-YOU HAVE WHAT YOU WANT
So it’s essential the way you think, your ATTITUDE about life.
Your attitude is the filter of your existence. Why do I say this? Easy: because if you think like a loser, as if you have lost already, as if everything is conspiring against you, if you give up and you don’t try new things, all the external circumstances align to this way of thinking. So you act wrong and all you get is failures, disappointments and regrets.
On the contrary, if you think in terms of a winner, you will progress very quickly, you will realize that everything is here to assist you to evolve and the results are as you wanted. There are many people who have much knowledge, higher education, a special education and yet their life is a disaster: they always feel frustrated, irritated,they are not paid according to their studies and everything in their life is just a great dissapointment. Nobody and no knowledge or techniques will help you if you believe that you are a victim of life,of the external circumstances, a helpless person. Nothing helped me until I started to change my way of thinking from victim to winner. When I realized that I am responsible for everything that happens to me and that I can create my life exactly the way I want, I gave up the role of the victim, I started to think like a winner and things started to change for the better quickly.
Whoever you are, no matter what studies you have, in what environment you are, what results or skills you have now, this have no importance. Absolutely none! Because you can get much more if you start thinking diffently! Think like a winner! So, attitude is the most important ingredient for success life, in anything in life. Everything starts with a simple choice: what am I? a winner or a loser, a victim? You can choose between: being a winner, getting up every time you fail, with even more strength, energy and enthusiasm, learning from mistakes and evolving or being a loser: a victim, a person who is discouraged by their friends,by a loss,by a fall or by a breeze. I know what you can you tell me: you have no idea what you’re talking about, you don’t know what I went through,what difficulties I have, I don’t have anybody who can help me start a business,I don’t have money, I have nobody to support me!
I don’t know your problems, but I know there are people who have been through worse situations and that they faced many obstacles but who always passed throught them with optimism, smiling, and became wiser and more determined to succed. An example I can always give to anyone is that of Nick Vujicic who has no hands and feet but despite all these he is a happy man he always smiles,he makes a lot of things and he travels worldwide motivating and inspiring thousands of people! I know nothing can knock you down so much that you can’t get up! And the most important thing, there is always a solution to any problem!
So, no matter what you pass throught,the right attitude,the way you see things will help you succeed!
Finally, what you choose to be? A winner or a victim?
By: Dascalul Radu of Ezine Article
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