When our work life is demanding, setting priorities at home can be difficult. We may find ourselves struggling between what we want to do, versus what we really should be doing. Or, we fall into procrastinating when the pressure’s off, and things just never get done. Whatever our individual challenges, to set effective priorities and stick to them, we need to first have a clear understanding of what matters most in our life.
You may recall a story about a seminar presenter who placed a wide mouth gallon jar on the stage. He filled it to the top with some large stones and asked the audience if it was full. To which they answered, “Yes!” Then the presenter added a handful of smaller rocks to the container. As the audience watched the smaller rocks fill the vacant space between the large stones, he asked the same question, “Is the jar full?” Catching on, the people responded, “No.” Next he added some sand, followed by water, until the entire volume of the jar was completely full.
I like this illustration for a couple reasons. First, it demonstrates that by making room for the large stones first, the smaller rocks, sand and water eventually work their way into space surrounding the larger stones. The order in which the contents are added to the jar is essential for everything to fit. In the same way, it becomes clear that ours lives will also benefit by first making space for the significant things, before taking care of the rest.
The other thing I like about the illustration is that it reveals the importance of knowing which things in our life represent the large stones. Setting priorities involves separating the things that matter most, from the things that don’t. That’s why it’s essential for us to be clear on what we value and what’s important to us, so we can make them our top priority.
When’s the last time you really thought about what matters most in your life – at home and at work? Maybe now is a good time to ponder some of these questions. What or who is most important in your life? Which goals are most meaningful? Which relationships hold the most significance for you? Does your family come first over advancement in your career? Is achieving success a top priority? How do you see your future and who will be part of it?
As you identify who and what represent the large stones in your life, your priorities will become clear and decisions will be easier. Our choices ultimately become part of our destiny. When we know what’s important in our life, our effort and our energy begin to converge in a direction that leads to more fulfilling and purposeful living.
By: Carla Paton of EzineArticle
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